Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Time between Sagai and Shadi

It is rightly said "Life ka sabse acha time sagai aur shaadi ke bich ka hota hai." This is the time when you get to know your future life partner.
In this time one can develop a healthy bond of friendship, understanding, empathy and trust.




Coming to mine story. Me and Vishal got engaged on February 20, 2011 and we got married on November 22, 2011. That means there were almost 10 months.
We enjoyed and utilized that time in getting to know each other's family better. And, trust me it has helped us both a lot in understanding each and every member of each other's family. He's working in another city.
So, we use to meet after almost 1 month but it was fairly good. Meantime we always use to have contact on phone. And, being in contact is very very important in a relationship.
People say that "give each other space in life", "duriyan bhi hain zarrori"; but what I believe in is just do what your heart says. Because heart is never wrong.
Don't force your self on other person but on the same time don't just let it go, giving impression that you don't care.
In our case, some time one use to feel little alone, confused but never forced to talk to each other.
We both are persons with different personality but quite focused. So, time between Sagai and Shadi was really a joy ride.
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